Be a sandwich critic!

I guess most people reading this will love sandwich. Unfortunately I Couldn’t develop a neat relationship with that dish still ;)

But this sandwich which I am going to explain is very spicy and needs to be loved by everyone in their everyday life.

The world we live has negative critics like water surface and the positive ones like land surface. Water leads in the percentage composition damn high.  We can’t hate and ignore that salty thing. We just need to accept that salt staying in the blessed land lifting us.

Everyday who ever we are will definitely come across criticisms. Either we make it or someone makes on us.  Field, age, gender and say whatever it doesn’t matter to criticize. Whether it’s our PM’s foreign trip to gain foreign investments or Katrina’s sizzling dance on an item number people don’t care about the feel of the recipient when they criticize. But they do get outraged when someone criticizes their deeds and attitude.

Why we need it?
We need criticism to improve our self. We will get to know our weakness only when someone says it. It’s the best and cheapest way to find our negatives. So feel blessed to have someone as a critic. Doesn’t matter they are positive or negative. You can bring out a positive value through both signs. Keep up that accepting spirit.


 How to criticize?
This is the heart part of this one page free advice write up. Most of the times we need to criticize someone without hurting them. I would suggest a spicy way to do that. Be a sandwich critic.

Just keep the negative points in the middle and cover it with the positive stuffs on the both ends like the breads of sandwich. People who have the hunger to improve themselves will definitely accept the center part of salty veggies and love the two sweet breads of positive appreciations.

Whenever you wish to comment negative on someone, appreciate them with positive points in the beginning of the conversation and then tell them what they are messing or missing. In the end tell something sweet of them. This makes a great sandwich which people love to have it. Moreover the salt veggie part which you wish to converse will be accepted.




Need an example?
 Yes I am a kind of person who expect example scenario in most of the situations. This is for my kind of kind persons ;)

Imagine a scenario that a typical fan wants to comment on his heroine’s last movie performance.
Here we go!

Me: hello ABC!    (Keep the name you like :P)
She: Yeah Hi, how are you doing?

Me: Am good. Your dance moves are simply gorgeous.
She: Thanks a lot.

Me: But the thing is I couldn’t imagine the adverse impact on the teens that a single item number of a Bollywood movie would make.  Most people in cinema talk about objectifying of girls in the movies but still you girls love to dance so for that. It sounds ridiculous.
She:  Yeah but it’s my character in that movie. I have to do that for my role. May be in future I will think twice before choosing those kinds of characters and costumes.

 Me: I believe you will. Sorry to say it again.
Your eyes are gorgeous and so does you. Your 2 min conversation made my day. Cheers.
She: J

That’s it. Be a sandwich critic and people will love to have you around.

With love,
Barathiraja