Stop Judging :)

It has been quite a long time without any blogs in Classy showcase.

Thanks to all those lovely hearts who asked me regarding the next posts.

This time I am going to scribble something which I planned to write months ago.

For most of the people it’s a part of their daily activity. Some do it rarely, some do it when they are with their friends and few never do it.

The last mentioned are the ones who this world needs. Yup! The people who don’t judge others are the classy ones.

It starts from high school class, when you mock a student who studies a lot. You may not know that he is the one who studies hard just to earn some penny by tutoring the kids in evening, dealing with the subjects he learnt, adding little grains to his parents’ income.

He may not be a centum scorer in Mathematics but he can score well with his bat in gentleman’s game. So stop judging!

We have seen many daunting Facebook pictures of a person who would cry a lot when they narrate their hard journey of life. That feel of a person who checks in a foreign country feeling fantastic actually misses his/her close circle of people in his mother nation in reality

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All those who share posts on CR7 and Lionel Messi are not avid soccer followers, and who wish on your timeline for special occasions don’t care about you. All the memes mocking or praising people and movies are not true most of the time. So stop judging as Mark knows the truth.

For the current gen boys and sweet girls, when your class mate doesn’t like a girl definitely he would spread rumors. So, don’t be gullible. Get rid of that. May be he is pulling you out from the path that reaches to an angel for life or to a precious relationship on earth which I weigh more than anything, FRIEND.

This applies for the sweet girls too. Just replace ‘he’ to the gossiping ‘she’ of yours and the angel to a hero. Don’t need to change the last word since it remains the same for both. That’s why it’s precious, hot, cool and awesome all at the same time. So stop judging!

People will love Katrina when she dances for Sheila ki Jawani and talk bad about her the very next hour. It’s none of our business to comment on others status and life style as we do not know their journey.

Problem lies within us and not outside. If you see the good in everything then eventually you will be having the best of life.

Neither I am a saint, I have committed the same mistakes but I have made it a resolution, not like the one which we make on our birthdays and New Year first day. It’s some kind of real one from heart.

 I won’t judge people.  It doesn’t mean that I won’t comment on cricket and Movies, I will be a sandwich critic since I can reach anyone through direct message in the form a blue bird’s tweet. I will appreciate the goodness of a person rather than teasing him/her on his failure.

We have no idea why Deepika said “My life, My choice”. We have no idea why government bans polythene in grocery shops instead of sealing the manufacturing units. We have no idea why Government runs liquor shop and educates the people not to drink. We have no idea why Bollywood rated sunny as their top actress.

Some are personal opinions and we don’t need to react towards that. But some are social issues which we need to think about it and react accordingly. So just start thinking on for solution for problems and start loving people without being judgmental and forgiving their mistakes.

I do not advice people. I am just going to follow this. Hoping my sweetest friends will be with me in whatever stupid things I do. :)

Cheers.

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Be a sandwich critic!

I guess most people reading this will love sandwich. Unfortunately I Couldn’t develop a neat relationship with that dish still ;)

But this sandwich which I am going to explain is very spicy and needs to be loved by everyone in their everyday life.

The world we live has negative critics like water surface and the positive ones like land surface. Water leads in the percentage composition damn high.  We can’t hate and ignore that salty thing. We just need to accept that salt staying in the blessed land lifting us.

Everyday who ever we are will definitely come across criticisms. Either we make it or someone makes on us.  Field, age, gender and say whatever it doesn’t matter to criticize. Whether it’s our PM’s foreign trip to gain foreign investments or Katrina’s sizzling dance on an item number people don’t care about the feel of the recipient when they criticize. But they do get outraged when someone criticizes their deeds and attitude.

Why we need it?
We need criticism to improve our self. We will get to know our weakness only when someone says it. It’s the best and cheapest way to find our negatives. So feel blessed to have someone as a critic. Doesn’t matter they are positive or negative. You can bring out a positive value through both signs. Keep up that accepting spirit.


 How to criticize?
This is the heart part of this one page free advice write up. Most of the times we need to criticize someone without hurting them. I would suggest a spicy way to do that. Be a sandwich critic.

Just keep the negative points in the middle and cover it with the positive stuffs on the both ends like the breads of sandwich. People who have the hunger to improve themselves will definitely accept the center part of salty veggies and love the two sweet breads of positive appreciations.

Whenever you wish to comment negative on someone, appreciate them with positive points in the beginning of the conversation and then tell them what they are messing or missing. In the end tell something sweet of them. This makes a great sandwich which people love to have it. Moreover the salt veggie part which you wish to converse will be accepted.




Need an example?
 Yes I am a kind of person who expect example scenario in most of the situations. This is for my kind of kind persons ;)

Imagine a scenario that a typical fan wants to comment on his heroine’s last movie performance.
Here we go!

Me: hello ABC!    (Keep the name you like :P)
She: Yeah Hi, how are you doing?

Me: Am good. Your dance moves are simply gorgeous.
She: Thanks a lot.

Me: But the thing is I couldn’t imagine the adverse impact on the teens that a single item number of a Bollywood movie would make.  Most people in cinema talk about objectifying of girls in the movies but still you girls love to dance so for that. It sounds ridiculous.
She:  Yeah but it’s my character in that movie. I have to do that for my role. May be in future I will think twice before choosing those kinds of characters and costumes.

 Me: I believe you will. Sorry to say it again.
Your eyes are gorgeous and so does you. Your 2 min conversation made my day. Cheers.
She: J

That’s it. Be a sandwich critic and people will love to have you around.

With love,
Barathiraja

Hi there, am getting screwed with Whatsappp!

Too much of anything is good for nothing.

This fact holds good for this green colored application too. WhatsApp, if used with absolute purpose serves no harm. But the too much of addiction has created an uncomfortable atmosphere for many of the people especially in teen ages.

Let me say how it screws our happiness.
                     

Every one in Whatsapp has an uncountable number of groups now-a-days. They never think about the purpose of that in their life.

One's school batch mates, school close friends,  primary school friends, primary school BOYS alone (You know its purpose I guess! ), college mates, department friends,  photography club mates, quiz club members and the list goes on. No one will talk to you as the same in reality.

Even if you send the greeting messages to every group ,you will lose of majority of time to live in reality. On the other hand, if you left a group then that's it, you will be knighted as Mr.Attitude by the proactive members of that group.

And there are people who live to distract others. For them, WhatsApp is the best platform to share all the nasty stuffs. We should keep one thing in the mind, certain stuffs will be interesting only if it is perceived on certain ages. 

If Everything reaches you early then it will definitely reduce the joy as a whole in a long run. 

Then those status reading habit, the main reason to screw happiness. Even if one is not that much enjoying with the new company of friends, he will have a YoYo Display picture with the status as "Having Hell a lot of fun with my NeW FrIenDs"

Ah! How difficult it is to type in such a way. I meant the caps in letters not the emotion of the statement.

Here we go for the important day in one's life, birthday!

Every group will start wishing and your palm will pain in replying Thanks. Your close friends who don't even have time to wish you in person or spend their busy time with you will change their display pictures to yours. 

Seriously dude, it will create many break ups with in friends. If you keep John's picture on John's birthday, then you have to keep it for Peter's birthday too. If you miss then that's it. You have missed his friendship too. You are not caring Peter then. 

P.S: I am not against this app. Its one of the best human creation. But still its all in our hands to use it in the genuine way.

Originally answered by me @ Quora

After all it’s just an Interview!

Yeah it’s time to switch off cricket for some time. Last few blogs would have irritated anti-cricket fans little bit. I learnt that more of anything is good for nothing. So this time, I have tried to list up the points to be considered while going through the interview process for the first time in campus.

·         Don't create hype for placements and companies. Wherever you go, you will be appreciated for your good skill and attitude.

·         Be strong in your aptitude so that you can clear the first round of most of the companies.

·         If you belong to IT department, recruiters will expect a grade above the other department students. So have clarity in basic coding stuffs.

·         When you are waiting for your turn in personal interview, keep calm and believe you can.

·         Treat HR's as normal humans and behave in your natural manner. Don't act too polite.

·         Keep smiling. This will create a positive impact about you to the person sitting before you.

·         If the HR asks you to come up with some questions, shoot some unique and interesting questions to him/her.

·         Have a unique and interesting hobby in your resume. Collect the possible information regarding that hobby. Even though you don't have any hobbies, add few unique things. You can't be brutally honest in this case.

·         Make HR listen to your words. Keep it simple and clear.

And finally don't think any interview as success or failure. If you clear you have numerous rounds to clear before your job gets confirmed in that company. Even if you don't clear, you have thousands of companies waiting to accept you and appreciate your skill.

All you have to do is search for the one which suits you. Or maybe you are the one who is going to employ others in your own company after some years of practical experience.

All the very best! Be vibrant! Be you!

Spread love,

Barathiraja

Virat Kohli- The Captain Fearless!

Yes after the captain cool, it’s time for the captain fearless to build up a good test team.

He has already asked the media not to compare his style of leadership with Mahi. But its general mind set of the human to compare the present with the past.

On field Virat Kohli is aggressive and highly passionate in his game. Captain cool may be hiding his emotions when a bowler goes for huge sixes. But this man is not going to keep it that much easy when it comes to the emotions on the field. But definitely he knows how to win. We have seen that in Under 19 world cup, some years back.

Winning Attitude:

When prince of Kolkata asked this Delhi boy regarding his aggression on field, he knocked out Sourav with his answer.

“I am like you, I play to win."

Kohli doesn't like to lose matches. He fights hard to make his team win. I have seen his eyes filled with tears whenever India loses an important match.

Bangla Escape:

May be in one day games it’s a good strategy to take the game till the end and then finish it off. But when it comes to traditional test cricket, it’s essential to keep winning every session.

Aggression will be this man's style. But definitely his passion towards the game will make India win.

If rain has not followed this fearless captain, definitely the green tigers would have been killed ruthlessly couple of weeks before.

Thank God, Rohit Sharma didn't get out on a no ball! ;)

Give him some time!

Definitely his kisses to Anushka on stadium will continue to fly without any hurdles. He just needs time to act matured but it’s not that much necessary to win. Maturity will be needed only to handle the journalist questions on the post-match presentations.

Because captain cool is too much good in sarcastic replies and keeps the press meets in total control.  Not even a single dressing room incident has been revealed from his words all these years.

He needs some time to get converted from champ batsman to champ captain. This man will do wonders for this cricket mad nation for sure.

On a lighter note,

If you love Anushka Sharma, then there is a huge possibility for your thoughts to get framed up to hate Virat Kohli.

Image Source: Google

With love,

Barathiraja

It’s too easy for Indians!

There are million things which we do with ease. Let me list the best 12 among them.

·         We can become Engineers easily.

Yes. We study hard in class 10 and class 12. We strive hard to join an engineering college and we will pass our four years of life there. We will study few topics and we will make some good friends for life. The only good thing these colleges provide is those good friends.

·         We play Cricket in any available space.

Go anywhere in India. You will definitely see a bunch of kids playing this gentleman’s game. This game is in the hearts of Indians for the couple of decades, no matter how much illegal money business giants make through it. We do have wonderful cricketers who carry this legacy for decades.

·         We watch our favorite movies even in early mornings in theater.

I guess no other countries will have a movie show by 4.00 AM. But Indians do watch movies for their favorite star. They will find it tough if someone talks bad about their reel life heroes. That’s the power of stardom in India.

·         If we don't like a successful personality, then we will ask in Quora
"Why Mr.ABC is overrated?"

Yes. Check Logging into Quora. You will find questions like

·         “Why Sachin is overrated?”

·         “Why Dhoni is over hyped?”

If one have watched the game of Cricket at least as News then there will be 0% chance for these questions to arise.

·         We study something and we will work in the field which is entirely different.

In India students are trained to work in companies and they are not educated to lead a successful life which has a clear work-life balance. But still there are exceptions who become leaders of the society with some great values.

·         We save everything for future.

Yes. Our parents work hard for our welfare and we work hard and save it for our future generations. Some people among us are yet to understand the work-life balance. We forget to live a life because of our hectic livelihood.

·         We work hard to increase the revenue of foreign companies.

Some people among us feel proud to work in a Non-Indian company rather than the local one. Thanks for our PM Narendra Modi for initiating the Make in India campaign. Definitely it will bring out a great change in the mindset of passionate Indians.

·         We will neglect any important work to watch "India Vs Pakistan" Cricket match.

Even a person who doesn’t follow cricket will ask for score during this match. Sense of Patriotism goes to peak on these days.

·         We blame the politicians for their corruption and we will vote for them again in the next election.

We have no other choice in this. We can’t choose the best. We will pick the person who is comparatively less bad in his past. Educated people don’t have the guts to become a politician.

·         We will make our kids learn "Ringa ringa roses .." in school without knowing the exact meaning of that rhyme.

 There are thousand topics in school which we learn without understanding. Among all, worst time is when we learnt the irrelevant rhymes in kids’ school. Most of them don’t give any knowledge or moral value.

·         We doesn't care about the education standard, we just need good scores in class 10 and 12.

It is not an issue if the child lacks quality in character or behavior. But it’s a serious issue when a student scores less in class 12 board exams. India can’t become a developed nation until it stops creating hype about the particular class board examinations. Quality education is the need for our incredible students. Life skills should be taught in schools.

·         We dreamed playing Football world cup and we are still dreaming!

 We dreamed playing world cup football in 2000. We dreamed in 2010. We will be dreaming in 2030. It’s a great mystery when a highly talented country in sports with the population of 1 billion can’t beat a country which has total population of less than two Lakh.

Let’s hope for a good future. The next generation students should have real passion and liberty to follow it making India the best.

Love,

Barathiraja

Yuvraj Singh- the Million Dollar Champ!

Not many have made a strong comeback from that deadly disease like this man! 

I am a kind of person who respects the past of a man. Just think about T 2o WC 2007 and World cup 2011 without this champ, you simply can’t. I don’t expect appreciations but at least don’t troll a fighter.

Yuvraj Singh as a batsman can make any bowler cry on his day. This man's strokes are classy treat to the eyes. But above all he has a great value. IPL may be considered as entertainment by the common people but it’s a strong business platform for many entrepreneurs. They know business and they know how to market their products. 

Take the last franchise who owned him, Royal Challengers. Let’s consider they bought him for 14 crores. He may be used in the cricketing field for 45% of the amount but the remaining 55% will be for his presence in the Sponsors advertisements.

India is a country where we can easily brainwash people and make them to buy any product when it is marketed by Cricketer/Bollywood Celebrity. They are in no mood to think whether the product is needed to them or not. They will buy just because of their Star attraction.

So if Yuvraj promotes a drink, definitely his fans will drink. The same is applicable for biscuits, Pain killers and much more commodities.

And one more fact is that every team can spend only particular amount of money on contracting their players. This time teams like Chennai Super Kings, Mumbai Indians retained many players so they didn't have that much balance to buy him where as Delhi had many crores left to get players since they released many of their players. So, 16 crores won’t hurt them too much.

So we don't need to compare the runs he scores with his crores and worry about it. Definitely the Business people will be happy with this deal. If his dad keeps calm for some days then definitely this man will be back into the team of Mahi.

#Business men think a step ahead of the common man.