Sunday, 10 July 2016
Memes and their Brahmas!
Friday, 1 July 2016
Happy Birthday Dear Captain!
Monday, 30 May 2016
The Kohli's feel!
Sunday, 3 April 2016
Does friendship needs a farewell?
"Yelae yelae dosth da..therumunayil adithukondom siridhum valikavillai, marunodiyil siri pirivu vandal anda vali tan thangavillai.."
I don't know the person who penned the above lyrics but surely this person should have sailed a hard boat in the journey of friendship. Thanks to him/her for sharing us the wonderful words which my friend sung in our college farewell and that added a color to this song in my heart.
Everybody who have gone for a College will definitely miss something or someone when they leave that wonderful place which most of the alumni will call HEAVEN on earth.
The sadness is we are not interested and matured enough to take along that heavenly people all along with our life. We may throw the blame on situation, job, family and anything. But inside the little organ on the middle left of your body, you will know how badly you miss those golden moments which passed like colorful a spark in the sky.
Think about the farewell, you will know how the tears will taste. Read that slam notebooks, you will understand how unique you are and how differently you were viewed by different people.
There would have been people who would have eagerly awaited for your simple waving gesture, some for your eye response, some for your smile. They would have penned down all those silly super awesome fun filled lovely moments which they lived or dreamt to live with you!
Yes life is unfair, in couple of years, things might not be the same. There are people who got married, went other countries just for studying and most like me sitting before a machine typing or coding something all five days just because I get money to do that. I know am doing it wrong and very soon I will change that.
Everyone of us will be busy making our lives, illegally blaming the time for not allowing us to meet the friends.
Just for a second, sit in your room and think about those luxurious four years you lived in the classes ,seminar halls, machine labs and the hostels. Those walls knew the loads of happiness which you loved and lived.
After that what ever you do will be for the sake of money or for the ever criticizing society which is eager to make a meme for every minute errors.
You might have visited hundreds of places ,boarded your first flight, made some awesome clients for your business. But somewhere in the bottom of the heart you will have the itch to meet a good friend.
I know it will be tough. But make some time. Remember time is one of the human inventions. You can add or modify it accommodating your ten minute phone talk with your lovely old good friend without any ego.
And you know what, you might have made him or her smile after days or months. Those little moments matters in life!
Get your silly smartphone, dial the numbers, say a hello! Ask them about their parents, family and new colleagues.
Ask them how many friends they have made after their college days.
I bet it will not be more than two or three. Colleagues and friends may look alike sometimes, but your mind and heart will know the exact reason why they can't be kept at the same place.
So speak to them atleast once in couple of days, weeks or months. You will feel the difference. You will have some positive vibes through your cherished memories.
Open those fun filled photos and have a look. Don't be like me who didn't collect any of those lovely snaps.
Say thanks to everyone who made those four years a beautiful part in the journey of life.
Yes, I miss my days @BIT
கல்லூரி நாட்கள் என்றும் இனிது தான்.
கண்கள் வியர்த்திருந்தால் மன்னிக்கவும் ;)
With loads of love,
Barathiraja
Tuesday, 22 December 2015
Stop Judging :)
Monday, 10 August 2015
Be a sandwich critic!
I guess most people reading this will love sandwich. Unfortunately I Couldn’t develop a neat relationship with that dish still ;)
But this sandwich which I am going to explain is very spicy and needs to be loved by everyone in their everyday life.
The world we live has negative critics like water surface and the positive ones like land surface. Water leads in the percentage composition damn high. We can’t hate and ignore that salty thing. We just need to accept that salt staying in the blessed land lifting us.
Everyday who ever we are will definitely come across criticisms. Either we make it or someone makes on us. Field, age, gender and say whatever it doesn’t matter to criticize. Whether it’s our PM’s foreign trip to gain foreign investments or Katrina’s sizzling dance on an item number people don’t care about the feel of the recipient when they criticize. But they do get outraged when someone criticizes their deeds and attitude.
Why we need it?
We need criticism to improve our self. We will get to know our weakness only when someone says it. It’s the best and cheapest way to find our negatives. So feel blessed to have someone as a critic. Doesn’t matter they are positive or negative. You can bring out a positive value through both signs. Keep up that accepting spirit.
How to criticize?
This is the heart part of this one page free advice write up. Most of the times we need to criticize someone without hurting them. I would suggest a spicy way to do that. Be a sandwich critic.
Just keep the negative points in the middle and cover it with the positive stuffs on the both ends like the breads of sandwich. People who have the hunger to improve themselves will definitely accept the center part of salty veggies and love the two sweet breads of positive appreciations.
Need an example?
Yes I am a kind of person who expect example scenario in most of the situations. This is for my kind of kind persons ;)
Imagine a scenario that a typical fan wants to comment on his heroine’s last movie performance.
Here we go!
Me: hello ABC! (Keep the name you like :P)
She: Yeah Hi, how are you doing?
Me: Am good. Your dance moves are simply gorgeous.
She: Thanks a lot.
Me: But the thing is I couldn’t imagine the adverse impact on the teens that a single item number of a Bollywood movie would make. Most people in cinema talk about objectifying of girls in the movies but still you girls love to dance so for that. It sounds ridiculous.
She: Yeah but it’s my character in that movie. I have to do that for my role. May be in future I will think twice before choosing those kinds of characters and costumes.
Me: I believe you will. Sorry to say it again.
Your eyes are gorgeous and so does you. Your 2 min conversation made my day. Cheers.
She: J
That’s it. Be a sandwich critic and people will love to have you around.
Barathiraja
Wednesday, 29 July 2015
Hi there, am getting screwed with Whatsappp!
Too much of anything is good for nothing.
This fact holds good for this green colored application too. WhatsApp, if used with absolute purpose serves no harm. But the too much of addiction has created an uncomfortable atmosphere for many of the people especially in teen ages.
Let me say how it screws our happiness.
Every one in Whatsapp has an uncountable number of groups now-a-days. They never think about the purpose of that in their life.
One's school batch mates, school close friends, primary school friends, primary school BOYS alone (You know its purpose I guess! ), college mates, department friends, photography club mates, quiz club members and the list goes on. No one will talk to you as the same in reality.
Even if you send the greeting messages to every group ,you will lose of majority of time to live in reality. On the other hand, if you left a group then that's it, you will be knighted as Mr.Attitude by the proactive members of that group.
And there are people who live to distract others. For them, WhatsApp is the best platform to share all the nasty stuffs. We should keep one thing in the mind, certain stuffs will be interesting only if it is perceived on certain ages.
If Everything reaches you early then it will definitely reduce the joy as a whole in a long run.
Then those status reading habit, the main reason to screw happiness. Even if one is not that much enjoying with the new company of friends, he will have a YoYo Display picture with the status as "Having Hell a lot of fun with my NeW FrIenDs"
Ah! How difficult it is to type in such a way. I meant the caps in letters not the emotion of the statement.
Here we go for the important day in one's life, birthday!
Every group will start wishing and your palm will pain in replying Thanks. Your close friends who don't even have time to wish you in person or spend their busy time with you will change their display pictures to yours.
Seriously dude, it will create many break ups with in friends. If you keep John's picture on John's birthday, then you have to keep it for Peter's birthday too. If you miss then that's it. You have missed his friendship too. You are not caring Peter then.
P.S: I am not against this app. Its one of the best human creation. But still its all in our hands to use it in the genuine way.
Originally answered by me @ Quora
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