Stop Judging :)

It has been quite a long time without any blogs in Classy showcase.

Thanks to all those lovely hearts who asked me regarding the next posts.

This time I am going to scribble something which I planned to write months ago.

For most of the people it’s a part of their daily activity. Some do it rarely, some do it when they are with their friends and few never do it.

The last mentioned are the ones who this world needs. Yup! The people who don’t judge others are the classy ones.

It starts from high school class, when you mock a student who studies a lot. You may not know that he is the one who studies hard just to earn some penny by tutoring the kids in evening, dealing with the subjects he learnt, adding little grains to his parents’ income.

He may not be a centum scorer in Mathematics but he can score well with his bat in gentleman’s game. So stop judging!

We have seen many daunting Facebook pictures of a person who would cry a lot when they narrate their hard journey of life. That feel of a person who checks in a foreign country feeling fantastic actually misses his/her close circle of people in his mother nation in reality

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All those who share posts on CR7 and Lionel Messi are not avid soccer followers, and who wish on your timeline for special occasions don’t care about you. All the memes mocking or praising people and movies are not true most of the time. So stop judging as Mark knows the truth.

For the current gen boys and sweet girls, when your class mate doesn’t like a girl definitely he would spread rumors. So, don’t be gullible. Get rid of that. May be he is pulling you out from the path that reaches to an angel for life or to a precious relationship on earth which I weigh more than anything, FRIEND.

This applies for the sweet girls too. Just replace ‘he’ to the gossiping ‘she’ of yours and the angel to a hero. Don’t need to change the last word since it remains the same for both. That’s why it’s precious, hot, cool and awesome all at the same time. So stop judging!

People will love Katrina when she dances for Sheila ki Jawani and talk bad about her the very next hour. It’s none of our business to comment on others status and life style as we do not know their journey.

Problem lies within us and not outside. If you see the good in everything then eventually you will be having the best of life.

Neither I am a saint, I have committed the same mistakes but I have made it a resolution, not like the one which we make on our birthdays and New Year first day. It’s some kind of real one from heart.

 I won’t judge people.  It doesn’t mean that I won’t comment on cricket and Movies, I will be a sandwich critic since I can reach anyone through direct message in the form a blue bird’s tweet. I will appreciate the goodness of a person rather than teasing him/her on his failure.

We have no idea why Deepika said “My life, My choice”. We have no idea why government bans polythene in grocery shops instead of sealing the manufacturing units. We have no idea why Government runs liquor shop and educates the people not to drink. We have no idea why Bollywood rated sunny as their top actress.

Some are personal opinions and we don’t need to react towards that. But some are social issues which we need to think about it and react accordingly. So just start thinking on for solution for problems and start loving people without being judgmental and forgiving their mistakes.

I do not advice people. I am just going to follow this. Hoping my sweetest friends will be with me in whatever stupid things I do. :)

Cheers.

Spread love.

Be a sandwich critic!

I guess most people reading this will love sandwich. Unfortunately I Couldn’t develop a neat relationship with that dish still ;)

But this sandwich which I am going to explain is very spicy and needs to be loved by everyone in their everyday life.

The world we live has negative critics like water surface and the positive ones like land surface. Water leads in the percentage composition damn high.  We can’t hate and ignore that salty thing. We just need to accept that salt staying in the blessed land lifting us.

Everyday who ever we are will definitely come across criticisms. Either we make it or someone makes on us.  Field, age, gender and say whatever it doesn’t matter to criticize. Whether it’s our PM’s foreign trip to gain foreign investments or Katrina’s sizzling dance on an item number people don’t care about the feel of the recipient when they criticize. But they do get outraged when someone criticizes their deeds and attitude.

Why we need it?
We need criticism to improve our self. We will get to know our weakness only when someone says it. It’s the best and cheapest way to find our negatives. So feel blessed to have someone as a critic. Doesn’t matter they are positive or negative. You can bring out a positive value through both signs. Keep up that accepting spirit.


 How to criticize?
This is the heart part of this one page free advice write up. Most of the times we need to criticize someone without hurting them. I would suggest a spicy way to do that. Be a sandwich critic.

Just keep the negative points in the middle and cover it with the positive stuffs on the both ends like the breads of sandwich. People who have the hunger to improve themselves will definitely accept the center part of salty veggies and love the two sweet breads of positive appreciations.

Whenever you wish to comment negative on someone, appreciate them with positive points in the beginning of the conversation and then tell them what they are messing or missing. In the end tell something sweet of them. This makes a great sandwich which people love to have it. Moreover the salt veggie part which you wish to converse will be accepted.




Need an example?
 Yes I am a kind of person who expect example scenario in most of the situations. This is for my kind of kind persons ;)

Imagine a scenario that a typical fan wants to comment on his heroine’s last movie performance.
Here we go!

Me: hello ABC!    (Keep the name you like :P)
She: Yeah Hi, how are you doing?

Me: Am good. Your dance moves are simply gorgeous.
She: Thanks a lot.

Me: But the thing is I couldn’t imagine the adverse impact on the teens that a single item number of a Bollywood movie would make.  Most people in cinema talk about objectifying of girls in the movies but still you girls love to dance so for that. It sounds ridiculous.
She:  Yeah but it’s my character in that movie. I have to do that for my role. May be in future I will think twice before choosing those kinds of characters and costumes.

 Me: I believe you will. Sorry to say it again.
Your eyes are gorgeous and so does you. Your 2 min conversation made my day. Cheers.
She: J

That’s it. Be a sandwich critic and people will love to have you around.

With love,
Barathiraja

Hi there, am getting screwed with Whatsappp!

Too much of anything is good for nothing.

This fact holds good for this green colored application too. WhatsApp, if used with absolute purpose serves no harm. But the too much of addiction has created an uncomfortable atmosphere for many of the people especially in teen ages.

Let me say how it screws our happiness.
                     

Every one in Whatsapp has an uncountable number of groups now-a-days. They never think about the purpose of that in their life.

One's school batch mates, school close friends,  primary school friends, primary school BOYS alone (You know its purpose I guess! ), college mates, department friends,  photography club mates, quiz club members and the list goes on. No one will talk to you as the same in reality.

Even if you send the greeting messages to every group ,you will lose of majority of time to live in reality. On the other hand, if you left a group then that's it, you will be knighted as Mr.Attitude by the proactive members of that group.

And there are people who live to distract others. For them, WhatsApp is the best platform to share all the nasty stuffs. We should keep one thing in the mind, certain stuffs will be interesting only if it is perceived on certain ages. 

If Everything reaches you early then it will definitely reduce the joy as a whole in a long run. 

Then those status reading habit, the main reason to screw happiness. Even if one is not that much enjoying with the new company of friends, he will have a YoYo Display picture with the status as "Having Hell a lot of fun with my NeW FrIenDs"

Ah! How difficult it is to type in such a way. I meant the caps in letters not the emotion of the statement.

Here we go for the important day in one's life, birthday!

Every group will start wishing and your palm will pain in replying Thanks. Your close friends who don't even have time to wish you in person or spend their busy time with you will change their display pictures to yours. 

Seriously dude, it will create many break ups with in friends. If you keep John's picture on John's birthday, then you have to keep it for Peter's birthday too. If you miss then that's it. You have missed his friendship too. You are not caring Peter then. 

P.S: I am not against this app. Its one of the best human creation. But still its all in our hands to use it in the genuine way.

Originally answered by me @ Quora

After all it’s just an Interview!

Yeah it’s time to switch off cricket for some time. Last few blogs would have irritated anti-cricket fans little bit. I learnt that more of anything is good for nothing. So this time, I have tried to list up the points to be considered while going through the interview process for the first time in campus.

·         Don't create hype for placements and companies. Wherever you go, you will be appreciated for your good skill and attitude.

·         Be strong in your aptitude so that you can clear the first round of most of the companies.

·         If you belong to IT department, recruiters will expect a grade above the other department students. So have clarity in basic coding stuffs.

·         When you are waiting for your turn in personal interview, keep calm and believe you can.

·         Treat HR's as normal humans and behave in your natural manner. Don't act too polite.

·         Keep smiling. This will create a positive impact about you to the person sitting before you.

·         If the HR asks you to come up with some questions, shoot some unique and interesting questions to him/her.

·         Have a unique and interesting hobby in your resume. Collect the possible information regarding that hobby. Even though you don't have any hobbies, add few unique things. You can't be brutally honest in this case.

·         Make HR listen to your words. Keep it simple and clear.

And finally don't think any interview as success or failure. If you clear you have numerous rounds to clear before your job gets confirmed in that company. Even if you don't clear, you have thousands of companies waiting to accept you and appreciate your skill.

All you have to do is search for the one which suits you. Or maybe you are the one who is going to employ others in your own company after some years of practical experience.

All the very best! Be vibrant! Be you!

Spread love,

Barathiraja

Virat Kohli- The Captain Fearless!

Yes after the captain cool, it’s time for the captain fearless to build up a good test team.

He has already asked the media not to compare his style of leadership with Mahi. But its general mind set of the human to compare the present with the past.

On field Virat Kohli is aggressive and highly passionate in his game. Captain cool may be hiding his emotions when a bowler goes for huge sixes. But this man is not going to keep it that much easy when it comes to the emotions on the field. But definitely he knows how to win. We have seen that in Under 19 world cup, some years back.

Winning Attitude:

When prince of Kolkata asked this Delhi boy regarding his aggression on field, he knocked out Sourav with his answer.

“I am like you, I play to win."

Kohli doesn't like to lose matches. He fights hard to make his team win. I have seen his eyes filled with tears whenever India loses an important match.

Bangla Escape:

May be in one day games it’s a good strategy to take the game till the end and then finish it off. But when it comes to traditional test cricket, it’s essential to keep winning every session.

Aggression will be this man's style. But definitely his passion towards the game will make India win.

If rain has not followed this fearless captain, definitely the green tigers would have been killed ruthlessly couple of weeks before.

Thank God, Rohit Sharma didn't get out on a no ball! ;)

Give him some time!

Definitely his kisses to Anushka on stadium will continue to fly without any hurdles. He just needs time to act matured but it’s not that much necessary to win. Maturity will be needed only to handle the journalist questions on the post-match presentations.

Because captain cool is too much good in sarcastic replies and keeps the press meets in total control.  Not even a single dressing room incident has been revealed from his words all these years.

He needs some time to get converted from champ batsman to champ captain. This man will do wonders for this cricket mad nation for sure.

On a lighter note,

If you love Anushka Sharma, then there is a huge possibility for your thoughts to get framed up to hate Virat Kohli.

Image Source: Google

With love,

Barathiraja

It’s too easy for Indians!

There are million things which we do with ease. Let me list the best 12 among them.

·         We can become Engineers easily.

Yes. We study hard in class 10 and class 12. We strive hard to join an engineering college and we will pass our four years of life there. We will study few topics and we will make some good friends for life. The only good thing these colleges provide is those good friends.

·         We play Cricket in any available space.

Go anywhere in India. You will definitely see a bunch of kids playing this gentleman’s game. This game is in the hearts of Indians for the couple of decades, no matter how much illegal money business giants make through it. We do have wonderful cricketers who carry this legacy for decades.

·         We watch our favorite movies even in early mornings in theater.

I guess no other countries will have a movie show by 4.00 AM. But Indians do watch movies for their favorite star. They will find it tough if someone talks bad about their reel life heroes. That’s the power of stardom in India.

·         If we don't like a successful personality, then we will ask in Quora
"Why Mr.ABC is overrated?"

Yes. Check Logging into Quora. You will find questions like

·         “Why Sachin is overrated?”

·         “Why Dhoni is over hyped?”

If one have watched the game of Cricket at least as News then there will be 0% chance for these questions to arise.

·         We study something and we will work in the field which is entirely different.

In India students are trained to work in companies and they are not educated to lead a successful life which has a clear work-life balance. But still there are exceptions who become leaders of the society with some great values.

·         We save everything for future.

Yes. Our parents work hard for our welfare and we work hard and save it for our future generations. Some people among us are yet to understand the work-life balance. We forget to live a life because of our hectic livelihood.

·         We work hard to increase the revenue of foreign companies.

Some people among us feel proud to work in a Non-Indian company rather than the local one. Thanks for our PM Narendra Modi for initiating the Make in India campaign. Definitely it will bring out a great change in the mindset of passionate Indians.

·         We will neglect any important work to watch "India Vs Pakistan" Cricket match.

Even a person who doesn’t follow cricket will ask for score during this match. Sense of Patriotism goes to peak on these days.

·         We blame the politicians for their corruption and we will vote for them again in the next election.

We have no other choice in this. We can’t choose the best. We will pick the person who is comparatively less bad in his past. Educated people don’t have the guts to become a politician.

·         We will make our kids learn "Ringa ringa roses .." in school without knowing the exact meaning of that rhyme.

 There are thousand topics in school which we learn without understanding. Among all, worst time is when we learnt the irrelevant rhymes in kids’ school. Most of them don’t give any knowledge or moral value.

·         We doesn't care about the education standard, we just need good scores in class 10 and 12.

It is not an issue if the child lacks quality in character or behavior. But it’s a serious issue when a student scores less in class 12 board exams. India can’t become a developed nation until it stops creating hype about the particular class board examinations. Quality education is the need for our incredible students. Life skills should be taught in schools.

·         We dreamed playing Football world cup and we are still dreaming!

 We dreamed playing world cup football in 2000. We dreamed in 2010. We will be dreaming in 2030. It’s a great mystery when a highly talented country in sports with the population of 1 billion can’t beat a country which has total population of less than two Lakh.

Let’s hope for a good future. The next generation students should have real passion and liberty to follow it making India the best.

Love,

Barathiraja

Yuvraj Singh- the Million Dollar Champ!

Not many have made a strong comeback from that deadly disease like this man! 

I am a kind of person who respects the past of a man. Just think about T 2o WC 2007 and World cup 2011 without this champ, you simply can’t. I don’t expect appreciations but at least don’t troll a fighter.

Yuvraj Singh as a batsman can make any bowler cry on his day. This man's strokes are classy treat to the eyes. But above all he has a great value. IPL may be considered as entertainment by the common people but it’s a strong business platform for many entrepreneurs. They know business and they know how to market their products. 

Take the last franchise who owned him, Royal Challengers. Let’s consider they bought him for 14 crores. He may be used in the cricketing field for 45% of the amount but the remaining 55% will be for his presence in the Sponsors advertisements.

India is a country where we can easily brainwash people and make them to buy any product when it is marketed by Cricketer/Bollywood Celebrity. They are in no mood to think whether the product is needed to them or not. They will buy just because of their Star attraction.

So if Yuvraj promotes a drink, definitely his fans will drink. The same is applicable for biscuits, Pain killers and much more commodities.

And one more fact is that every team can spend only particular amount of money on contracting their players. This time teams like Chennai Super Kings, Mumbai Indians retained many players so they didn't have that much balance to buy him where as Delhi had many crores left to get players since they released many of their players. So, 16 crores won’t hurt them too much.

So we don't need to compare the runs he scores with his crores and worry about it. Definitely the Business people will be happy with this deal. If his dad keeps calm for some days then definitely this man will be back into the team of Mahi.

#Business men think a step ahead of the common man.

Selfie

Photography is one of the best inventions made by the humans. Practically speaking it is the only possible way to relive the moments. But it’s killing the moments now instead of capturing it.

Think about that golden era when smart phones are yet to be discovered, when people used to communicate with each other so often and share their little feelings through eye to eye contact.

When a boy said those three words to his girl watching into her eyes, she replied back with a cute lovely smile. Gone man! All those lovely days were gone.  Future will be the technology controlled humans living as machines. Love will become a task to do!

Think how happy will be a family to pose for a group photo which is taken very rare. It will be organized approximately equal to a function, where the relations living in various parts will come together to a single place. Then the days passed, upper middle class started to buy small hand cameras where a person will shoot when others do serious posing. Marriages and other special occasions will have a photographer with a professional one in his hand.

People used to live the moment and photograph it for reliving it. But now a days people pose, pose and pose where they forget to live.

Technology started isolating people and this isolation reached its peak when selfie came into picture.

Now every kid has a rectangular Screen in the hands asking someone in the other part of the world whether they had dinner or not, but they have no time to ask the same to their parents who are living in their home. Though we are educated and equipped with basic knowledge in science, we can’t avoid using mobiles before going to bed which is a proved bad habit as far as human health is concerned.

We nineties’ kids have a good childhood time but this generation kids are missing million good things. Now the green colored app is creating such a non-sense in the society with its features.

Just think for a moment before sharing some one’s private videos and features. Think for a moment about their family, about their future. It gives you nothing in sharing those stuffs. May be your friend appreciates that before you but will call you with a bad nick name behind your back for this.

Selfie looks cool and hot but not always!

Think twice before you post.

Think thrice before you share.

Love,

Barathiraja

What CSK teach us other than to whistle!

Please don’t read this if you hate IPL ;)

Yes I do agree with the fact that IPL is more about business with the players and sponsors. But there is some part of it which brings out happiness and cheers to the passionate cricket fans.

IPL is something similar to the EPL of football, except the fact that IPL matches are played even during the week days with a full packed stadium.

“Everything in life is a learning experience.”

I learnt from the Chennai Super Kings many things that will be applicable for everyone in the real life.

First of all Brendon Mccullum nick named Baz, this man hasn’t showed any nervousness to the tough situations till now. Climate in New Zealand is some hundred times cooler when it compared to summer in Chennai. But this man just needs a chewing gum to adapt to the hot atmosphere. Playing as an opener he builds a strong foundation to the team’s batting unit.

#1 whatever thing we do, we need a good beginning. If the start is good then the job is half done.

Secondly the Caribbean all-rounder Dwayne Bravo, our captain believes in his death bowling capabilities and this man bowls his 4 overs in the last 8 overs of the match in most of the matches.  He never felt any pressure and the dance moves he makes during his celebrations was clearly a pressure reliever for every member in the team.

#2 Keep giving your best and enjoy every little success you accomplish on the route to your long term goal.  (If possible dance during your lovable moments ;))

Thirdly my most favorite person, Suresh Raina, we can’t count how much positive energy he is building up in the team through his playful cheer ups and appreciations he does to his team members. If Sir Jadeja saves a boundary in backward point he will be there patting him up, if Mohit sharma gets a leg before wicket he runs hard towards him and lifts him up. His presence makes the team energetic.

#3 Every team needs a positive catalyst, who groups and glues up the team members. This will bring out huge difference in the outcome of the team!

Sir Jadeja and Faf Duplesis are flexible players who can be used as per the team’s requirement. Both can bat at any position and field in any position. And more importantly Jaddu can complete bowling an over at lightning speed. This will increase the overall over rate of the team.

#4 Flexibility is a key factor which is essential for every successful team.

Then we have the leader who is someone entirely different from other captains and very unique in his plans. I don’t have to describe this man and his super cool character. Every team needs a leader who is capable of answering the silly questions of journalists at the post match presentations and press meet after that. Not only leading in front but this man is clearly a king in finishing up the innings through his helicopter shots. The term leader is different from ‘captain’. This MS Dhoni from Jharkhand is our super cool ‘Thala’

#5 No matter who the team members are, what the team strength is, every team needs a leader who keeps his head calm in tough times, performs the best when the team needs more and should be good in his words during his conversations with the media, as people have the habit of believing everything they read in popular magazines and everything they see in Flash news. The team’s character will have major cells and tissues built from its captain.

So Namma Chennai Super Kings ku Whistle Podu! ;)

Celebrity War ;)

Celebrity!

Every one reading this will definitely have a dream to become a celebrity some day or other. Some may have already lived the classy life in the dream. Just imagine how awesome it will be when you have million followers in twitter, some thousand fellows begging for your retweet. Wherever you go you will have red carpet reception. Million girls will be dreaming about you, day and night.

Ssshh!! Enough, enough!

Come back! Come back to normal.

I and my friends have wasted nearly half of our class hours in debating about two celebrities.  They are popular heroes in kollywood industry. If you are in Tamilnadu its mandatory that you should follow one of these two stars.  And the most interesting fact is that every boys group in the school days will definitely have the fans of both. You cannot see a group of friends who are completely one sided. Always it will be a mixture of both fans.

It will start with the count of hits and flops of their heroes.  Some talk about commercial success as if he/she has collected the price of every ticket sold out in theaters. Some talk about the skills their stars possess. Once we couldn't find anything to boast about our hero we will start trolling the other fellow’s flaws in the movies. It’s fortunate that we stopped this time pass once we completed our schooling.

 Some grew up. They admire their stars with conscious feeling that they are just actors who are paid for every eye blink in their movies. Some may go deep and search for their hero’s personal data along with their habits and if they find anything good, they will start to follow that. For instance, Actor Ajithkumar is exceptional in the way he treats his guests. So it’s a good sign if a fan of him follows the same.

But it’s unfortunate that still there are some kids who are assuming themselves as they are fighting hard for their heroes by trolling the other stars fans. May be some will do just to irritate their friend. But I have seen some posts in you tube which can’t be read in anytime in anyplace by anyone. It will be a complete shit sometimes.

In my opinion, these are like Dog's bark at the Sun. The stars have no reason to care at these shouts. The educated fans will also feel the same.

There are million things to chat with your friends other than this. Just see movies as entertainment and nothing more than that. May be some movies will teach you something for the real life, learn that. I just have a thought that India can’t reach great heights if it has people watching movies in the early mornings. Movies are once created to entertain people in their leisure time but now it has grown up as a gigantic industry which serves thousands of people for their livelihood. But on the other side it spoils the rest of the people in million ways. A porn star has been searched more than anyone in Google as per the last year analyses. It may sound silly but it’s a serious shame.

Being a celebrity is not that much easy. But if they realize for a moment that they are going to be role model for many people who are addicted to them, they can do miracles in the society. I am damn sure that smoking rate will definitely reduce if all the mass heroes stops smoking in their movies. I know its illogical to blame them for our mistake but still they should show some care towards their fans who are wasting their precious hours thinking and talking about them.

This blog might have irritated some die hard fans of cinema. But

My blog, my choice!  #just Saying 

(I have nothing to do with Deepika’s ‘My life and my choice’ video ;))

And one more thing I like both Vijay and Ajith (Safety issue dude ;) )

Love,

Barathiraja

Education

Yay!

It is really magical that how some positive responses you get in your life in certain things from certain people will boost your thoughts to work more on it. Yes you people have made this little writer to write for the third time. Please bear with some of my errors in writing since I am yet to complete my degree in English Grammar ;)

 Education: Even Google shows the real meaning of education in second line rather than the first.

We here will keep on saying to ourselves that our education system is bad and it’s the root cause for all the illegal activities that are taking place in the society especially the increasing rate of crime against women. But we simply don’t care about the topic once our life is safe zoned in some way.

Just think how many times we have recited the poem “Ringa ringa roses...” without knowing the fact that it is a poem of death related to Great Plague that killed many people. What is the necessity to make the little kids learn such an unpleasant thing in the early stages of their life? Just because it’s in English we Indians love the rhyme! ;)

How many of you can prove that Armstrong really landed in the moon? There are many reasons listed up to prove that was a hoax but we mugged up those two names for two marks in Q & A session of class 4.

I have read some stories regarding ancient Indian education which the Indian kings will provide to their princes during their childhood days. It was seriously super cool in its form. For instance consider the epic Mahabharata, the princes were trained for some years in a Gurukulam inside a forest which is far away from their palace. The idea is to keep the boys stay focused on their learning without any distractions. Moreover they have a clear reason and purpose in their education. They are educated with moral ideas and thoughts since its very much essential for the future kings.

My generation schooling was entirely systematic in nature. We will go to school even before we learn to speak clearly. We will be taught from the primary schools that best way to live a happy life is to get good marks in class 10 and 12. In order to keep your good form in that classes you need to start scoring good runs in the league matches too, which is nothing but the other classes from 1-9. The most pathetic situation will be in standard 11 where you will be said that you can enjoy this period because you have completed a construction of big wonder last year (10^th standard Public) but keeping the fact in the mind that you need to build something more than that in the next year, you have to sacrifice certain things such as watching TV, Playing cricket) < till then I thought sacrifice was something like army men do to our country but my teachers have different meaning>. We will even mug up the answer for the question “what is your ambition in life?”  The answer will be as follows: “we will study hard and become Engineers and Doctors to bring out the positive change to the mankind”. <No other careers can bring change so we chose this ;) >

Then the big picture will be the selection of an engineering college. We will donate in lakhs to get a seat in a famous college. The definition of a good college is nothing but the placement records of that college. No matter what they teach us, what we learn, we just need an IT job when we come out as graduate.

And parents are very much proud to say that their kids are doing their higher studies in a country other than India.  No matter how badly they miss their prince and princesses at that time. They just want them to settle. < Settling means getting a job of six digit salary with a flat and a car for their family. Nothing more needed ;)>

The ridiculous part is that there will be no difference among the students whose names were flashed in the news channels some four years before with their smiling faces uttering the words as follows:

“All my success credits go to my parents, my teachers especially my mathematics advisor and my brother, sister and blah, blah! I didn’t watched TV for six months <Who asked you to watch TV just for distraction; you have million things to learn. You can see the rarest species of birds in Discovery, Brilliant magic tricks of Dynamo in History channel; you can realize how our Indian army is fighting hard to guard us through the news channels>  The list of sacrifices for the marks continues  without any reason which has a logic behind that.

Another ugliest part is when these rank holders came out and join an IT company for a monthly pay. Why should they waste their 25% of life just to do a normal job which any person who is well good in his English communication and who has good learning ability can do.

The Europeans and Americans are building up business units and we are serving them to grow more and more. We will be employees forever till we change our mindset towards education.

 We need a livelihood for life not a life for livelihood.

The previous line was said by my school principal, Mr.Alwarappan. His period of one year in my school was a clear blessing to me and my friends.

My hearty thanks sir!

And to the money makers out there, don’t enter into the field of education and hospital unless you are service minded. You are playing with the future of the incredible country. Making money is easy but making good humans is not that much easy!

And to the students out there, life has zillion ways to live a happy life. Just treat class 10 and 12 as normal hurdles. Help a little kid to learn. Teach a tribe to speak in a common language. Get a Briyani parcel to a fellow who is starving for food.  Education is not about technical stuffs alone, it’s something beyond that.

Education is an Enlightening experience.  This is what Google says as meaning for that word! ;)

Love,

Barathiraja

Networking DIET

If we need to be happy with something or someone, the only possible way is to have a limit. Being human it is very difficult to have that cross line with SOMEONE you love or someone you like, so it is accepted to cross and deserve the outcome ( You are lucky if you have positive output :P ).

But with the artificial things it is definitely possible to belt ourselves tightly with in the circle. Social networking is one such artificial thing which now needs to be kept in DIET.

Food diet gives us good physique (Just for some people ;) ) and this Network diet will definitely keep the Mind good. Who knows in the near future there will be Companies rising up in this sector showing up a high revenue for the quarter, may be more than that of Facebook and other minor networking sites. Every technology invented by man has the adverse impact on this human life unless otherwise it is applied or used for the specific purpose of its invention.

Let’s have a look on that green icon application on all our mobiles right now. Even if you belong to well-reserved or anti-social category you will have a minimum of 5-7 groups in your contact list with or without your interest. Starting from the school mates followed by college, then work and last but not the least the SUPER GREAT RELATIVES who are very eager to hear your success.  If the groups work as unique then there will be no error in the design. But the thing is that college group will have a division which will have your best people in class as participants of that group.

 <Cool Dude, Best friends are none other than who change their Display picture or so called profile picture on your BIRTHDAY ;) Sounds ridiculous ;) >

Most ridiculous thing is that if a participant of the group exits for any reason, then he/she will be kept out of the circle as like the case of Panchayat judgment for a criminal in villages of olden days. But the true thing is he/she who is out of the group may be enjoying the life in his/her own privacy.

The fact is current generation people are the Kings and Queens in misunderstanding with the people whom they come across in their life. This graph of misinterpretation is a positive yield graph when its dimensions are switched to texting from direct eye to eye communication.

Definitely the psychological disorder of watsapping for everything will be named very soon by the corresponding people (I have no idea who names the new disorders :P). People will be losing their taste and selection skills even when it comes to the scenario of choosing a dress. Even now the dresses are chosen based on the audience vote in the Watsapp group.

Coming to the flying bird icon application of our smartphone, the hash tags of any type can be made trended within an hour reaching every nook and corner of the world. The company has already regretted for not making control over the negative impacts and they are working on it.

Already the world is addicted to the Facebook which has become part and parcel of everyday life. It’s impossible to watch a movie without checking in, impossible to travel without posting an update, impossible to drink even a coffee if you are outside your native country without posting it. It’s very logical to waste a day for photo-shoot with your usable friend just for tomorrow’s profile picture. (USABLE adjective is used intentionally :P ).

I am not saying to be anti-social but be in the NETWORK DIET. Limit the time you live in the imagination or fake reality. Live free, live real, network a lot but have a real purpose!  

But I couldn’t imagine how much watsapp groups the next generation kids are going to have and how they are going to manage their parents who will be asking every reason for their status update.

Let’s have a NETWORK Diet!

Spread the love and start appreciating the little things in your life J

Love,

Barathiraja

First Blog ;)

I planned to start a blog. I started. Then the biggest question rose up, “what is going to be my first thing to keep it in the classy showcase?”

Mind said to Google for the solution. Being an Electrical engineer working in an IT giant, nothing can help me more than the six letter sexy search engine!

But heart said at least for the first blog, stay independent of Google.

Yay!

Even if Google fails to help us, there lies another six letter word in the most common language of the world.  Yes friend, it is “FRIEND”.

Every human relation in this fragile planet is unique of its own kind. But this FRIEND has different dimension matching up in the different scenario in the varied, collapsing, enjoying, partying, roaming, learning, studying, dancing (and every other possible form of verbs excluding some) situations.

It starts in the kinder garden where we chose to sit with someone just to have a company in eating chocolate, cookies and some scribbling in the note. For some it may start with a small help of picking up a ball from the neighbor compound while playing gully cricket. And some have friends in travel, some in class, some in playground; some in school and college cultural festivals and the list goes on never ending.

But however they come, good FRIENDs conquer our heart and there is no such case so called break-up. May be busy in their own lives but you can be damn sure that true friends will think and pray for their friend’s well-being at least once in a day, or once in a week though they didn’t meet up every day.

Stay positive, Stay Vibrant, Stay             !

Be thankful to the friends without whom your life is an incomplete sentence like the previous one. Tried to post a best quote for the friend, and then realized a sentence of four or five words can’t define every precious things of the life. Certain things have to be felt and lived.

Start trusting,loving,helping and LIVE!


Love,
Barathiraja